I feel stuck. Sort of paddling in place. Not moving forward.
My main focus for my memoir over the last two months has been marketing, developing a plan to get my name out, get part of my story out, before I strive to get the publishing wheels in motion. I am attempting to use my blog, Facebook, Instagram regularly to build an audience on social media. I am honing my messaging for my personal story, my elevator speech so to speak. I need to have a compelling couple of sentences come out of my mouth when asked, “What is your book about?”
However, I feel like I am treading water, moving slowly ahead, if at all. Moving slowly feels so good when I am doing Tai Chi, but not so good when I sit at my desk wondering how to connect with people who would love to hear and read my story.
This morning it hit me that I have been at distance from my actual book writing for a couple months. I am not writing pages every day, creating a narrative, a compelling story. Part of my feeling stuck in place is that I am disconnected from my own writing, pen to paper, moving keys on my laptop to construct lively dialogue. I miss it.
So, I will commit to writing here every day this week, writing regularly as I have for three years. Writing words will hopefully be my vehicle to get unstuck. I have no outline, no to-do list on how to move through this, but I do want a flow, like a calm stream of water, to move me forward.
If you have a story about what has worked for you or have ideas for me, or can help me build an audience, let me know. Write a comment, send me an email, call me. We all experience this and sometimes a nudge, a well-place word of encouragement can unleash momentum. Now, I think I will go breathe and do some Tai Chi to clear my head, so new thoughts can enter.
Anne B Plyler says
I’m a Tai Chi instructor too, and just beginning – again – the process of writing my memoirs. I also have been stuck. It began when my healthy, vibrant and active husband of 46 years died suddenly, 2 years ago of a ruptured aortic arch aneurysm. We had taught Tai chi together for almost 10 years. I found that I simply couldn’t write – something that had been my habit since 4th grade became stagnant. (I’m 70 now.) I’ve begun an online program to re-fire my writing life. This may be helpful, or you may be way past this kind of help but I encourage you to check it out: Write. Heal. Transform: A Magical Memoir Writing Course from Daily OM Courses by Diana Raab. I’ve also begun working with a Jungian analyst / Presbyterian minister to sift through the changes forced upon me by my widowhood. Good luck to you and thanks for sharing your journey.
Arlene Faulk says
Thanks, Anne, for your support and encouraging comments. It’s great that we are both Tai Chi instructors and writers! Wishing you the best as your re-activate your passion for writing.